November is my favorite month of the year. I love the weather, the last effort to soak in the intermittent moments of hot sun and glorious views of red, orange and yellow leaves before it is blanketed in snow. I also love Thanksgiving. It warms my heart just to think of the gathering of family members, discussing the small and grand blessings we are so blessed to have in our lives. I love the rubbing of shoulders in the kitchen and most of all, I love our family traditions.
Why are family traditions important?
"Family
traditions are like spiritual and emotional cement in the foundation of
a happy home. They create fond memories, and these memories bond us
together as nothing else can.
Traditions
influence the way we live and the way we look at life. They may be
practices or beliefs handed down from generation to generation, or new
habits or patterns we establish in our own families. Some will be based
on commandments and righteous principles, others may evolve from our
cultural or national heritage."
"As important as the establishing of any tradition, no matter how
creative or enlightening the event itself is supposed to be, parents
must never lose sight of the spirit in which the activity is conducted.
How easily we overshadow the beauty of any special occasion when we
allow force, anger, or impatience to intrude. If the children are not
perfect, the food cooked just so, or the decorations quite what you had
imagined them to be, remember how much more important it is that you are
all together sharing this sweet tradition. And prepare a little better
next time."
One of my favorite family traditions started just 3 years ago. I felt that Thanksgiving was beginning to feel hectic. The day started and ended with Mom running around the kitchen frantic to get everything accomplished successfully and on time precisely. Even with all the help each family member gave, we all felt like it was a stressful day, void of peace and relaxation. I thought of ways we could take a moment from cooking and cleaning and really enjoy the day as a family.
I purchased a white tablecloth and after dinner it was spread across the dining room table. I told each family member to ponder what they were most grateful for and to write it down on the cloth. Everyone miraculously wrote something different and it was so heartwarming to see the blessings we have received individually. The table cloth was put aside and brought out when we met again as a family for Spring and Fall General Conference. As we are listening to Conference, Mom, sister, sister in law and I stitch up the blessings.
When Thanksgiving day rolls around again it is so neat to look over the previous years stitching and the blessings that are soon beginning to overtake the white spaces of our cloth. It is such a family treasure and we all look forward to it every year.
- What are your favorite Thanksgiving Traditions?
Diana Noyce was kind enough to share this family tradition, "We
have a family home evening around Thanksgiving time when we give a gift
to Jesus. It is a promise we make to him of one thing we can do to
draw closer to him or be more like him...a goal we will work on for the
next year. ,We write it down on wrapping paper and place in a wrapped
box. Every year all the boxes are in a pile in our front room."
I love her tradition and I hope that we can each continue to remember to uphold those traditions we have within our families and maybe start a new one or two this season.
Here are some basic traditions to start with your family. Also found from the
Ensign.
Examples of Family Traditions
May the spirit be with you and your family as you strive to grow stronger together.